Mind Your Tweets and Posts, and Other Lessons Learned from Weiner and Company
Sleaze in politics is nothing new. Anthony Weiner’s sexcapades are just the latest in a very long line of politicians’ indiscretions – think John Edwards, Eliot Spitzer, and Arnold Schwarzenegger, to name just a few of the more recent offenders. But there’s a lot to be learned from the scandals that dominate headlines. And yes, we can even apply the lessons learned to our careers.
Career lesson #1: Be careful when mixing business with pleasure. For today’s savvy professionals, social media like Twitter and Facebook have become excellent platforms for self-promotion and career advancement. Still, you have to be careful about what you release into the black hole of cyberspace. Consider keeping separate accounts – one for your professional network, and one that’s just for friends. If that distinction is blurry, edit yourself. Anything you put in writing – even if it’s just a text – can find its way back to you. That goes quadruple for photos.
Career lesson #2: Learn the ins and outs of social media. As Weiner learned, the stakes on Twitter are higher than on plain old e-mail. When you mistakenly send an e-mail to the wrong person, at least you’re messaging someone in your address book. But if you’re attempting to direct message someone on Twitter and you type “@” before the username instead of “D,” your message becomes visible to anyone with a Twitter account. Don’t become a victim of the DM fail. If you have private info to share, go with e-mail. Better yet, pick up the phone (but not at work!).
Career lesson #3: The higher you go, the farther you fall. Sending lewd photos can get you fired no matter what your position. But the higher you go in your career, the more people pay attention to what you’re doing. Weiner is certainly not alone in his sexploits, but ordinary joes don’t make headlines for their wrongdoings. If you have your eye on a big promotion, keep your act clean. Don’t be deluded into thinking that a position of power makes you invincible – if anything, it makes you even more exposed (no pun intended).
Career lesson #4: Take responsibility for your actions. It’s simple – if you mess up, ‘fess up. The truth has a way of coming to light, and your personal and professional prospects will look much, much better if you’re the one shining the light rather than getting caught in the glare. Weiner’s story would have had much less traction if he had told the truth right from the start, don’t you think? Adding lies to your indiscretions, whatever they are, will not endear you to your clients, your colleagues, or your boss.
Scandals have been around since the beginning of time, but social media has given us an all-access pass to every sordid detail and blurred the public-private distinction. If you want to succeed in your career, consider keeping your personal life to yourself and put your camera away!
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